Activities
of my parents in Paris
My
mother...
- In the fall, she went to
French millinery school (link
to style of the times). She learned to make amazing hats, with
papier mache fruits, mushrooms, and all sorts of interesting objects on
them. Often the hats were large. I remember the head she
used to shape the wet straw on. Her hats were quite spectacular
on her and I remember that she attracted very positive comment whenever
she wore one. She even made a hat for my stuffed donkey, Eeyore.
- In the winter she began to
go to the Cordon Bleu school of cooking, in their professional
program. This beginning was to lead her to an eventual "Grand
Diplome" and an amazing career in food in the United States.
- Many years after our stay
in Paris, my mother noted that she (and my father) had been observing
and reporting what they saw in post-war Europe to US government
officials. Apparently, I offered convenient opportunity to do
so. Thus, I remember on a number of occasions enjoying banana
splits and other American ice cream treats (made with real cream--not
the watered-down French ice cream) with my mother as she apparently
observed the activities of remaning troops in the PX at the American
Embassy in Paris. Photo
of the times...

My father...
- He held one of the early Fulbright awards. He spent
some part of each day in the Bibliotheque Nationale, following his
interests in research on Asia in the eyes of Europe.
- Often, he would take me for walks, to look at old
bookstores, or to museums. Sometimes, we would go to an American
movie on the Champs Elysees. Then we would sit in a cafe and
observe the passing pedestrian traffic. My favorite museum was
the Louvre: particularly the Mona
Lisa and the Winged
Victory of Samothrace. Once when I was standing transfixed in
front of the Mona Lisa for awhile, a guard came over and said something
to the effect of "I'm keeping an eye on you...I don't want you stealing
that painting!" Of course he was joking, but I was frightened and
started crying (the guard was upset)...I was a very small child,
physically and so no doubt appeared quite advanced for my years; many
adults seemed to find that dissonance intriguing. I did not like
the Venus de Milo; it upset me and I tried to avoid walking anywhere
near it.
Stories of life in Paris, with
my parents.
- Shortly after we arrived we went to the American
Embassy. From there, at my mother's request, we went to a
restaurant where she wanted to eat snails. The restaurant was
upstairs somewhere; that location struck me as quite peculiar.
Anyway, neither my mother nor I spoke any French. My father had
studied a bit of French in the classroom only and clearly was not adept
with food words. No one knew the word "Escargots" for
"Snails." I remember my parents drawing pictures in the air of
spirals. The waiter was quite distressed. I thought the
whole thing was hilarious (although others did not). First, we
wound up with "cervelles" on our plates ("brains"). That wasn't
it. Next, he tried "ris de veau" and we wound up with
sweetbreads. The waiter was quite helpful but also
frustrated. After awhile, we all laughed and my father turned
this into a learning experience for me on the importance of learning
vocabulary in studying foreign languages. It was my first venture
into life in France.
- I very much enjoyed walking along the Champs Elysees with
both my parents. I wore gloves, always, as was the custom of the
time. Mine had tan leather palms and a woven string back.
Usually, one parent was on either side of me, each holding one hand; I
liked to swing back and forth (picked up my feet). Sometimes we
went to the Guignol (puppet show); I liked it some, but it scared me
some, too. I preferred to ride on the carousel near
Guignol. Sometimes my parents rented one of the folding chairs to
sit on. What I really liked, though, were the occasions when my
parents bought me a balloon from the balloon vendor with his huge bunch
of helium-filled balloons. The balloons were encased in a woven
string based with little French flags (reminiscent of the strong French
tradition with hot air balloons). I felt as if both my hands, in
their string gloves, and the balloon in its string "glove", were a good
fit. I felt very strong and powerful strolling along with my safe
hands and a safe balloon that could not escape.
- Occasionally we went to the Jardin d'Alimentation (in the Bois de Boulogne),
an amusement park. I was intimidated by most of the rides, but
did enjoy some little boats to ride around in. I liked games
where one could win prizes.
- We rode the Metro
sometimes but rode buses more often.
- Often I would go in the afternoon to the Parc
Monceau. I learned to roll a hoop and had a lot of fun with
that. The fencing along the sidewalk edge there fascinated
me: heavy wire/metal semicircles, just overlapping, formed a
fence a few inches high--easy the step over, but enough to suggest
"keep off the grass."
- Afternoon snacks, "goutee," was usually a pastry--mille
feuille (napoleon) or eclair au chocolat (chocolate eclair).
- Visits to other sites around Paris:
- Top of the Arc
de Triomphe
- Place de la Concorde
- Arc de Triomphe de Carousel
- Jardin de Tuilleries
- Notre Dame (cathedral, Ile de la Cite)--rose windows were
great...recently restored following the war.
- Palais de Versailles and gardens
- Petit Trianon
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MEMORIES
Living in Paris, and in
particular living with a French family, again opened many varied
and broad opportunities, especially in regard to the remarkable set of
Americans who lived and worked in Paris during this post-WWII time
period.
- Madame Bardel, Claude and Francoise, my best friends in
Paris. We
lived en pension with them in one sub-apartment on the Boulevard
Malesherbes. We ate dinner with them, en famille, most
evenings. The
meals were traditional classical French cuisine; many courses, wine,
and water to drink. Children drank wine mixed with water in
addition
to water.
- Jacques, the British (bilingual in French and English)
student
who also rented a sub-apartment from Madame Bardel. He ate dinner
with
us only occasionally.
- Sol and Rhoda Hirsch. My mother met Rhoda and Sol at
the American Embassy.
- Joe and Rose Tanous and their children, Peter,
Evelyn,... The
children went to the American School; they were all older than I
was.
My mother met Rose at the American Embassy.
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