FEATURE
Memories,
scattered:
- The apartments had black (or very dark) linoleum tile
floors. They were large tiles (I'd guess 4 to 6 inches on a
side) and created a very hard, slick floor. It was fun to slide
on these in socks. My mother used to wear high heels; I gather
the noise of high heels on those floors made lots of noise for the
neighbors below. This apartment was the only one I ever lived in
that had such a situation with the flooring.
- Elevator...some of my friends and I used to jump up on the
handrails inside the elevator and perch on them. A number of
adults told us not to do that...that we might get hurt. We kept
doing it, but were careful not to do it when the elevator looked as if
it were going to stop at some floor other than our own. Playing
in the elevator was common on rainy days. An elevator building
was a novelty for most of us. The adults, particularly the
janitor, did not appreciate this! As an adult, I wouldn't either !
- We used to play "King of the Mountain" on the slide in the
playground. I was one of the smaller kids so I usually got
knocked off quickly. Sometimes I'd get hurt. On one or two
occasions, I became the King (the last to survive being pushed off).
- When I played outside, I was required, by my parents, to
play where they could see me (thus, so I could see the windows of the
apartment). They stood in the window at regular intervals and I
was to wave if ok.
- Sometimes my parents played outside with me. I
remember my mother helping me in the sandbox learn to make molds of wet
sand using cookie cutters and the like. Eventually, I got my own
pail and shovel. Then, I tried to dig through to China, as one of
the fathers had suggested. I thought he meant to find buried
dishes. I did not find any in the sandbox, so I started digging
holes in the playgound grass. Eventually, I did find a piece of a
broken dish and claimed I had found China. No one else was
impressed and in fact they made me go back and fill up the holes I had
dug over a period of several weeks.
- My father taught me to ride a bike, my green J.C. Higgins,
from Sears. Steve, our janitor, also helped. It was a 24 inch
bike and too big at first, so they put blocks on the pedals. I
learned to mount it as if it were a boys' bike, by coasting it and then
throwing my leg over the seat to the opposing pedal. Soon, I was
riding along 60th Steet sidewalk, up and down in front of our
playground down as far as the Borgehese House (where the Good Humor Man
parked his truck or his bike cart with bells on the handlebars. I
really enjoyed riding the bike and I also enjoyed the raspberry
popsickles (full-sized, not twin pops).
- I remember when the Borghese House had a fire in the
tower--I could see it very well from my bedroom. Later the
Wellivers lived in that house. I played with Lucy Welliver.
We also visited them later in Italy at their home there.
- My father also used to take me out on the Midway to
play. I was not allowed to go there by myself, even though it was
within sight of the apartment. He taught me to throw a hard ball
correctly (not "like a girl"). He brought me a marvelous plastic
"auto-gyro" from New York and we took it out and set it up and sailed
it.
- In my bedroom I remember various things:
- Coloring with my friends while sitting on the
floor--mostly freeform coloring on typing paper (my mother was typing
dissertations for Kate Turabian).
- Playing my toy piano and xylophone while sitting on the
floor.
- Listening to records on my record player. I liked
most music I heard. Among kiddy records, Kitty Konga, The Big
Rock Candy Mountain, and Rudolph the Red Nosed Raindeer (Gene Autry)
were my favorites. I liked to go to sleep while listening to
music: Rudolph was one favorite. Another was "Shall We
Dance" (Audio sample) from
The King and I (Gertrude Lawrence and Yul Brynner)--some of these may
have been released in the early 50s--what I remember is listening to
them in the Faculty Apartments.
- I remember being sick on several occasions. On one,
I must have had a high fever. I recall asking my father where I
had been before I came to live with my parents, as from some time long
ago. On another, I remember my pediatrician, Howell Wright, and
my godfather, Harold Wagner, visiting me in my bedroom and both of them
telling my parent to keep the room darkened. I also recall being
given a shot of gamma globulin by one or the other of them.
- Sometimes, instead of listening to music as I was going
to sleep, my father would tell me a bedtime story. My favorites
were ones he told of when he was growing up. In particular I
enjoyed the stories of his antics as a teenager in Morgantown, West
Virginia. Apparently, he and a group of friends found one man to
be particularly nasty to them. They got together and waited until
the man went to the outhouse. Then, they pushed the outhouse off
its foundation and rolled it down the hill, with him in it, presumably
in a compromising position. I thought this story was very
funny. My father said that while is was indeed funny in some
ways, that it was a very nasty thing they did and that he was not proud
of it--but, that he was willing to admit the error of his ways and
hoped I would never do anything that stupid. I asked him to
repeat this story many times. Eventually, he said that that was
enough.
- Indoors, my father taught me to wrestle: he taught me
a hammerlock hold, a full nelson, and a half nelson. He let me
try them out on him until I could throw him on the ground. He
still walked with a cane, and reassured my mother that it did not hurt
him very much because he was trained to take falls.
- He also played with toys with me; early on we built with
American Plastic Bricks--first we would carefully read all the
materials, then talk about what we had read, then find the suitable
parts and develop a plan, and then, finally build, slowly and
carefully. My mother was on hand during these sessions to offer
food and advice.
- My father and I used to stand in the picture window in the
living room and watch the sun set to the west. We counted the
stories in the Woodlawn Hospital and discussed ideas of what it meant
to be "twice as tall"--he maintained that Woodlawn was twice as high as
the building we were in. I maintained it was "once" as
high. Clearly, we were talking about different mathematical
operations: He about multiplication (2*1=2) and I about addition
(1+1=2). Eventually we worked that out. We also talked
about language; he made up a rhyme for me--"Mary had a little lamb, its
fleece was black as ink; it chewed the paper off the walls, and spit it
in the sink." I thought that was hilarious. I learned some
from my mother that she had known as a child growing up on a
farm: "Mary had a little lamb, she fed it oats and corn; And
everytime it turned around, it tooted its little horn." I did not
understand that one until I was much older but remember it because when
I repeated it to adults it got a reaction.
- My mother helped me a great deal with music (toy piano and
xylophone) and art. She taught me how to blend colors by putting
down swatches of crayon on paper and then using a Kleenex to blend them
and even pick up the new blended color and rub it elsewhere.
Clearly some clever variant on using a paintbrush and pallette. I
loved playing my musical instruments and would play them for hours.
- My mother used to like playing with a pinball machine with
me. We'd play that for quite awhile at a sitting. We played
Bagatelle. When my father played, we played baseball.
- My father taught me to read a map. We drew maps of
the apartment and of the area outside. They helped me to
understand where I was allowed to go and where I was not allowed to
go. My father took me, for example, to the south side of the
building to ride the sled with me in the winter down the steep, icy
slopes of the hill of excavated material remaining from building the
building. That is also where most cars were parked (I remember
the Blochs had a Ford with a sharp "nose" on the front; Konrad used to
drive us to school in it). We had a burgundy Chevy that my mother
drove and later a light green Chevy that she drove. The maps
helped me to point to "gray" areas in terms of permissions--I used to
like to walk along the ledges (as if they were balance beams) adjacent
to the rear entries on the north and south of the building. I was
told that the one to the south was absolutely off limits and that, if I
must do this (although they preferred that I not), I must do it only on
the north side of the building. Exercises of that sort
reinforced, as well, the cardinal points of the compass in linking them
from the map to the ground. Once I got the hang of it, I could
spend hours reading a map.
- Both of my parents took me to Chinatown to Tai Dong
restaurant, upstairs and across the street from the fire station.
We often went there with Uncle Harold Wagner. I learned to use
chopsticks, much to the delight of many of the adults there.
- My mother also taught me simple kitchen skills: using
a knife, peeling eggs, and so forth. I remember once we were
cutting carrots during a thunderstorm. Lightning his the top of
Harper Library across the Midway and knocked a cross off the top of the
west tower. I cut my finger and had a scar on it for many
years...longer than it took to fix the library!
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MEMORIES
Moving to Chicago, and in
particular moving to the Faculty Apartment Building, opened many varied
and broad opportunities, especially in regard to the remarkable set of
people who moved into this new building.
- Washburn
family: Stanley
Washburn, older brother Tucky,
parents, Sherwood and Henrietta (Pease).
- Bloch family (6019 Apt. 202): Peter Bloch,
younger sister Susie, parents, Konrad
and Lore (Teutsch).
- Metzler family (6027): Margy Metzler, younger brother
Ricky, parents, Lloyd and Edith.
- Dorfman family (6027 then 6019 Apt. 102): Abby
Dorfman, younger sister Julie, parents, Al
and Ethel.
- Clark family (6019 Apt. 402): Betty Clark, older
sister Judy, parents Dwight and
Eleanor
- Cramer family (6019 Apt. 804): Browning Cramer, older
brother Owen, parents Maurice and Alice.
- Weil family (6019
Apt. 104): Sylvie Weil, younger
sister Simone, parents Andre and Mrs. Weil.
- Chern family
(6011): Paul Chern, younger sister Mae,
parents Shiing-Shen and Mrs. Chern
- Gelb family (6011): John and Walter; parents Ignace and Hester.
- Walton family (6019): Sally (Sassy) and parents--did
not live there very long.
- Von Grunebaum family (6019 Apt. 702): Tessa and
sibling, parents Gustave
and Mrs. Von Grunebaum
- Preissler family (Janitor's apartment in the basement of
6019): Rosemary, parents Steve and Mrs. Preissler.
- Sylvia Thrupp
(6019 an "01" Apartment below the eighth
floor)
- Ralph and Louise Tyler
(6019 Penthouse above Apt. 802--902?)
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